Kitten cats meow milk :)

These two mother cats (gray and triple color) gave birth at almost the same time. They've been transferring each other's kittens here and there (as in mixing up their kittens). I guess to settle the matter and after getting tired of all that transferring, they finally decided to share a nursery area (a.k.a. our home's doorway), so their combined kittens now have bottomless milk and comfy body beds :)

Happy Women's Month 2013

I wish that all women will be able to exercise their rights, and enjoy all benefits and opportunities on equal footing with men. While many world conferences on women have been held, a number of covenants and agreements on gender equality and promotion have been signed by different nations, and many countries have made great strides in gender equality advocacy and promotion,  sexism still occurs in various levels in society. In some cases, sexism (especially discrimination against women) occurs in small scale (such as in the household level--e.g., delegating housework only to girls and women because it's supposed to be "women's work") that sometimes we tend to dismiss it as nothing else. But when such sexism occurs everyday in many places in different situations and nothing is done about it, eventually all these "little incidents" merge to become large cases and hard-to-reverse sexist and gender-insensitive situations. 

Here's hoping more women and more men will be enlightened enough to end discrimination because of sex. So that every year, the celebration of International Women's Day (March 8) and Women's Month every March will become more and more meaningful and joyous.

A Blessed New Year to all!!!

I hope everyone had a meaningful Christmas 2012 celebration, and will be even be more blessed on this new year 2013. Well, the world didn't end in 2012, so let's all be happy that we've got some more time to be good girls and boys :)

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!!

Online Christmas Simbang Gabi 2012 (dawn masses)

notice from philippine daily inquirer newspaper: As part of its annual commitment to bring Christmas to overseas Filipino workers (OFWs) through its “Paskong Pinoy” special site, INQUIRER.net, a member of the Inquirer Group of Companies (IGC), will cover the nine-day masses at the San Fernando De Dilao Parish or Paco Parish in Manila beginning December 16. Manila Archbishop Luis Antonio Cardinal Tagle will celebrate the first day of the “Simbang Gabi” that will start at 4 a.m.

The dawn masses at San Fernando De Dilao Parish in Paco can be viewed on http://www.inquirer.net/paskong-pinoy

Note from me: This will also benefit other nationalities, of course, who can't physically go to church in the early morning (or whatever time it is in their countries) to go to Holy Mass in preparation for Christmas Day. The Mass to be said online might be in Pilipino (the Philippines's language), however. I have no idea about this as of this time, though. .

The New Apostles' Creed has a sexist line?

The Catholic Church, to which I belong, will fully implement the new English missal in all Masses starting Sunday, the first in the liturgical season of Advent. This is according to reports. 

I'm all for the changes in the liturgy in the Mass, if it will help improve or strengthen the faith of the people and make the Masses even more relevant and timely, among other things.

However, I'm a bit bothered that in the new "Apostles Creed" prayed in the Mass (the prayer that begins with "I believe in one God"), a line there seems to be sexist. Why? Because the line (12th line) refers to only "men" and not to "women" also. I subscribe to the use of politically correct gender-fair language in written and spoken manner, and I think the use of "men" only in that line could have been improved by just using "For us" instead of "For us men..." (Or, maybe just drop altogether the phrase "For us men" and start the line with "For our salvation..."

I know that some people still subscribe to the teaching that the word "man" already refers to "woman." But with all the efforts being done by various sectors, groups, and advocates toward gender equality and the recognition given the differing situations and needs of "women" and of "men," and with all the world conferences, conventions, agreements, and laws that provide for the advancement and empowerment of women, I think that (again) subsuming "women"  under the all-general term of "men" in the new "Apostles Creed" is a step backward for gender equality and the empowerment of both women and men. My fear (I hope though unfounded) is that for those who are not yet, or not yet fully, gender-sensitive, reading or reciting that line over and over again in the "Apostles Creed" might reinforce (even subliminally) their traditional mindset that women have less roles to play in society and in other aspects of life, hence no need to further mention "women" in the same breath that "men" are mentioned. Another traditional mindset (in basic linguistics especially) is that the word "man" already encompasses "women." But, of course, I hope people will be, in general, more progressive thinking than what my expectations suggest. In the meantime, for gender equality advocates like me, I can only continue to "cringe" whenever the congregation comes to that "sexist" line while reciting the prayer in unison at the Mass, or else I pause at the word "us" in the "For us men..." and continue on to the next phrase "and for our salvation..."

I know that my opinion is a mere speck on the institution of the  prayer and the Church. But, I guess, I just wanted to get that off my chest :)

The New Apostles' Creed

I believe in one God,
the Father almighty,
maker of heaven and earth,
of all things visible and invisible.

I believe in one Lord Jesus Christ,
the Only Begotten Son of God,
born of the Father before all ages.
God from God, Light from Light,
true God from true God,
begotten, not made, consubstantial with the Father;
through him all things were made.
For us men and for our salvation
he came down from heaven,
and by the Holy Spirit was incarnate of the Virgin Mary,
and became man.
For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate,
he suffered death and was buried,
and rose again on the third day
in accordance with the Scriptures.
He ascended into heaven
and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
He will come again in glory
to judge the living and the dead
and his kingdom will have no end.

I believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son,
who with the Father and the Son is adored and glorified,
who has spoken through the prophets.
I believe in one, holy, catholic and apostolic Church.
I confess one Baptism for the forgiveness of sins
and I look forward to the resurrection of the dead
and the life of the world to come. Amen

Co-op women workers of Cebu, Philippines

My beloved ageing parents

Yesterday, I visited the wake for the father of a friend of mine. As I viewed a few steps away from where I sat the remains of the old man lying in state, and as I listened to the brief recollections being told about him, I was once again reminded of how blessed I am that my dear Mom, at 79, and my dear Dad, at 87, are still with us their six children and 12 grandkids. 

My parents may not be in the best of health now, but in their best of health then, they were there for us their children, and even up to now in their own ways. Caring for ageing parents can sometimes be a daunting experience, as it can really test one's patience and understanding. But I guess that is nothing compared to what parents have to undergo to rear their children well. Coming from the wake, I was glad to see and be with my Mom and Dad at our home. And I vowed to try even harder to be more patient, appreciative, and understanding of my ageing parents. ;)